Settling into the empty nest
Someone asked me the other day how I’m adjusting to the empty nest, and I said, quite honestly, that I hadn’t had a chance to notice the nest was empty.
Grateful for more than just the coffee
I’m learning through a new gratitude practice that it’s not just certain people and things that bring me joy. It’s everyday, run-of-the-mill experiences.
Moving on just in time for the New Year
In relationships, grace is that moment when we realize we’ve reached our limits and call a truce before we push each other off the ledge.
A holiday miracle on the way to town
It’s easy to get discouraged by the stories we hear about people not getting along. But for the most part, we do a pretty good job of making space for each other.
My future self wanted a different Christmas tree
When we look forward in our life, we believe that we’ll always feel and think the way we do today. But we seldom do.
Why is it so hard to do nothing?
For years I’ve struggled with a propensity to stay busy and an uneasiness, even a sense of guilt, when I stop being productive.
My default neural network made me fall
I wasn’t paying attention. I was thinking of something else. And suddenly I was somersaulting across the forest floor.
What I’ve learned about finding happiness
Happiness isn’t something that we can acheive. It’s something we grab on to, right here, right now.
Midlife: Filling the space left behind
The middle part of life is a time for new interests, hobbies, and friendships. We have time again. Little by little.
Three ways to stop feeling lonely
A recent experience reminded me that loneliness often is a choice. And we can choose connection instead.
Caught in a cycle of project paralysis
Project paralysis happens when we think we have to do it all now. Overwhelmed by the bigger picture, we can’t seem to start.
Five ways I’m navigating “the midlife crisis”
Midlife is all about change. But some of these changes are pretty great. Here are a few things I really love about being in my 40s.
What’s in a selfie?
I take a selfie when I want to capture a moment of happiness. So looking back at the handful of selfies I took last year is telling.
How to cope with anxiety over world news
A sign that the news is too much for you? You can’t stop or pull yourself away from it.
I try to post once a week. But sometimes it doesn’t work out that way.
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